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Speaking to one or two people in what can be considered an intimate conversation is much easier than having to stand up and speak to a room full of people. There are things you can do if you’re not as comfortable speaking in front of large groups as you’d like to be.
The distress can be compounded if you are not only asked to speak, but you are asked to be one of the keynote speakers. Being the keynote speaker can definitely add extra pressure to the situation.
Follow the tips below and you are sure to have a much easier time stepping up in front of any audience to say whatever it is you have been asked to speak about.
Tip #1 – Remember they chose you!
If you have been asked to be the keynote speaker among other speakers, obviously you are qualified and are sure to be standing in front of a crowd that wants to hear what you have to say. Let this knowledge calm you down as you remind yourself why you were asked to speak when the temptation to get anxious arises.
Tip #2 – Be prepared
Nothing helps a speaker feel confident just prior to stepping in front of an audience like being prepared. Even if you are well versed in the topic, it is still wise to prepare what you are going to say (at least somewhat). While you don’t necessarily need to have a speech memorized, having at least a general outline is probably a good idea. Keeping things inside your head may work but things can get all jumbled in your head when you actually get up in front of an audience. Having something prepared to keep you on track and make sure all key points are covered is advisable.
Tip #3 – Imagine they are in their underwear
This tip has been around for ages, and there’s a reason, it works for many people. So if you find that after following the tips listed above, you are still nervous about being on the list of keynote speakers, imagine the crowd is wearing nothing but their undergarments. It may seem like a weird thing to do at first, but for many people it actually works – which means it’s worth a try!
Naturally gifted speakers are rare, for the rest of the population being a good public speaker is a skill that can be learned. With preparation, practice and patience, anyone can become an effective speaker.
Thanks to A-Speakers for great inspirtation: a-speakers.com